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There are several approaches to

settling your financial matters.

These range from kitchen table agreements to court. As you move along the continuum, the processes tend to increase in cost and parties relinquish their control of the process. nocourtdivorc.ca focuses on Mediation or Collaborative Process, allow individuals to be more in control and ensure the goals and needs of a family are met, and their interests are heard and addressed. Here is a summary of the various options available:

⭐ Collaborative Practice

Collaborative Practice is a respectful, team‑based alternative to court. You work with collaboratively trained lawyers, family professionals, and a financial specialist to resolve issues in a transparent, solution‑focused environment. This approach is ideal for families who want to stay out of court, maintain healthy relationships, and make decisions that reflect their values. The process emphasizes open communication, full disclosure, and shared problem‑solving — allowing you to stay in control of the outcome rather than handing decisions to a judge.

How We Can Support You

Serving as the neutral financial professional for both spouses
Preparing financial statements, budgets, income summaries, and support calculations
Analyzing settlement options and helping the team understand the financial implications
Assisting with any financial tasks required throughout the collaborative process

⭐ Mediation

Mediation brings in a neutral professional who guides conversations and helps you work through decisions about property, parenting, and support. Sessions may include just the two of you and the mediator, or your lawyers may participate when needed. Once you reach an understanding, the mediator can prepare a Memorandum of Understanding, which your lawyers can use to draft a Separation Agreement. Mediators offer legal information, but not legal advice — you will still need your own lawyer for Independent Legal Advice at some point in the process.

How We Can Support You

Acting as a neutral financial professional for both spouses, or assisting one spouse individually
Preparing financial statements and organizing disclosure
Reviewing and analyzing settlement ideas to ensure they are financially realistic now and in the future
Providing financial mediation services once full disclosure is complete

⭐ Lawyer‑to‑Lawyer Negotiation

In a more traditional negotiation model, each spouse has their own lawyer who exchanges financial information, discusses settlement options, and communicates proposals. The tone of the process can vary depending on the lawyers involved, but choosing someone you trust and communicate well with is key. If negotiations stall, the matter may move toward arbitration or court, but many families still reach agreements through this method.

How We Can Support You

Preparing financial statements and organizing disclosure
Reviewing settlement proposals and explaining the financial impact of each option
Helping you understand the numbers so you can make informed decisions

⭐ Kitchen Table Approach

When you and your spouse are able to talk through your finances and agree on how to divide property, a simple “kitchen table” process can work well. Many couples start by gathering their financial documents and preparing a clear summary of assets, debts, and income. This can be done before meeting with a lawyer. Full and honest disclosure is essential, as you will eventually confirm the accuracy of your information. Even if your agreement differs from the traditional legal model, a lawyer will still explain your rights and obligations so you can make informed decisions.

How We Can Support You

Preparation of a joint Net Family Property Statement
Organizing your financial disclosure in a clear, complete package
Creating both a legally‑standard financial statement and a version that reflects your preferred settlement
Providing summaries for your lawyers and referrals to settlement‑focused legal professionals